Parents Enpowerment
Parent Volunteers as Peer Educators
Parents in Action
For Leadership and Human Rights
Goal: Using the train-the-trainer model, by which
expects to multiply the number of participants and their leadership
role in society; the parents not only transform themselves, but
become effective vehicles of social transformation. As the name
of our organization states, we emphasize Leadership in a Human Rights
frame in relation to the Child Welfare System.
Hours of Training: 10 hours of intensive training
to be provided in two weeks.
Description of the Course:
The course is made out of 14 modules, that will be taught in a
total of 10 hours, during 5 weeks.
1- General Description of the Child Welfare System (an
Overview): Facts, statistics, the ACS, the Foster Care, the Law Guardians,
The Family Court, the coming uphill battle, etc. Knowing the Law. Article 10 of the
NYS Family Court Act. CAPTA, ASFA. Important Federal Court Decisions. CPS fishing
expedition. Cooperating or not cooperating. Psychological Warfare. Class and Race.
Disregard for the 4th, 5th, 9th, 13th, and 14th Amendments of the Constitution.
The Revenge of the Mediocre. Social Engineering. Social Control and Population Control.
2- The Psychological Factor: The need for urgent change and the
indispensable transformation. Business as usual is over. The concept of War. The battle
of your Life. Your Children and Your Survival is at Stake. Healing the extended family.
Creating a support system. Getting rid of petty issues. Unconditional love for your child.
Don’t let the system poison you. Golden opportunity for transformation. Rising to the
challenge. Convert Your Pain and Anger into Action. Action, the best therapy. Transform
Yourself or Lose Your Child. Self-Control and Self-Discipline a must. Do not allow them
to destroy you Financially and Psychologically. The concept of asymmetrical warfare. The
concept of Total War. Prepare Yourself for a Long Battle. Focus in getting Your Child Back.
Includes Family Court Etiquette: the importance of Your Appearance in Court. Dressing as
an Attorney.
3- The 72 Hour Conference and the1028 Hearing:
Facts and Rules of the 72 Hour Conference. Facts and Rules of the 1028 Hearing. The
importance of this hearing. Changing the odds. Keeping a log of everything. Gathering
documentation, affidavits, witnesses, etc. Making Sure that Family Re-Unification is
always the goal. From the beginning: pack the Courtroom. Let the Judge know that You
are Not Alone. Beware of the 1051A Admission: convenient to the 18B and ACS attorneys,
Law Guardians, Foster Care agencies, and Family Court Judges, but rarely to Parents.
4- Visitations: Your rights. Avoiding confrontations. Getting support.
Documenting abuses. Going with a friend. Making complaints. Asserting your rights. Keeping
and Strengthening the Bond: Communicating with your Child everyday. The Service Plan Review
(SPR). Turning things around at the SPR. Make allies of your enemies. Getting help from other
Parent Advocates. Be aware of provocations. Bring your camera and your tape recorder. Be aware of the Stockholm Syndrome.
5- Services: Foster Care Agencies a profit-driven Industry. They make
money by keeping Your Child and Giving you Services. Parenting Classes. Anger Management.
Counseling. Psychological Evaluation. Psychiatric Evaluation. Drug Testing. Drug Treatment.
They keep moving the target. The longer your Child stays, the more money they make. Keeping
you busy all day: on the way to become a parasite, while they profit from you and your
Children. The complicity of the ACS prosecutors (lawyers) and the Law Guardians in delaying
your case. The rubber stamping job of the Family Court Judge.
6- Helping your 18B attorney to help you: Your 18B attorney does not have
the time or resources to win your case without your help. Keeping a good flow of communication
between your Court Appointed attorney and you. Making timely appointments (bring an Advocate
with you). Doing the foot work that needs to be done. Asking all the rights questions. Making
sure that you and him/her are on the same page. Having copies of All materials and documents.
Reviewing carefully all those materials and documents. Making a report for your 18B attorney.
Forcing your 18B attorney to do their work. Making sure that all favorable evidence is on the
record. Calling witnesses. Developing an strategy to win. Making sure that all evaluations go
only to Your Lawyer (and if the evaluation is favorable, then he will share it with everyone else).
Never sign or agree to anything without your lawyer present. Use him/her as an excuse to refuse
to sign or agree to anything that you are not 100% sure that is in your favor.
7- Appeals: The right to appeal. Challenging wrongful decisions. Getting free
counsel for appealing. Appealing prose. How the Appellate Division Works. Rules and Procedures.
Timely appeals. We encourage everyone to Appeal all the time as an instrument of system change to
force the Appellate Division to realize that Family Court in New York City is an Institutionalized
System of Injustice.
8- Writing letters and complaints: Writing to anyone who could be of help: public
and elected officials, politicians, the media. Using the media to your advantage. Developing media
contacts. Organizing a letter writing campaign. Getting an email address. Use of computers in public
libraries: writing in a word processor, saving your work on a diskette, e-mailing your material
if necessary. The advantage of Faxing documents over e-mailing them. Going to the ACS Office of
Advocacy for help. Searching for the ACS Commissioner or Deputy Commissioners at Public Forums
and asking them for help.
9- You, the Activist: Rallies, Demonstrations and Getting
Allies: Putting pressure on the system by having many people rallying to your cause.
Press Releases and Press Conferences. Using the media to help your case. Choosing
very carefully your target. Going to Public Hearings, City Council, State Assembly,
PTAs, SLTs (School Leadership Teams), CECs (Community Educational Councils),
Borough President meetings, CDs (Community Districts), etc and rising your
concerns (either through a statement, a question or both). The same goes to attend
or even join organizations, coalitions, collectives, etc that we see as beneficial
of being educated in our issues, and eventually having them as our allies. The
benefit of joining the Steering, Coordinating, Planning, etc, decision making body
to assure that our issue is part of the agenda.
10- Helping Others: Mutual Support (Circle of
Support), fixing the system, and helping yourself. By advocating
for system change you are not only helping others but you are helping
yourself. Code of Ethics. Becoming an efficient vehicle for social
change. The role of the Parent Advocate: helping one-self, helping
others, becoming an agent of system change. The Family Court Patrol.
11- The Fact Finding: Facts and Rules of the
Fact Finding Trial. The importance of this process. Here you need all
your weapons. Plenty of fact witnesses and Character Witnesses. Changing the odds.
12- The Disposition Hearing:
Facts and Rules of the Disposition Hearing. The importance of this hearing.
Changing the odds. Making Sure that Re-Unification is the Goal.
13- The Termination of Parental Rights Hearing (TPR):
Facts and Rules of the Hearing. The importance of this hearing.
Changing the odds. Adoption Hearing: Facts and Rules of the Adoption Hearing.
The importance of this hearing. Re-directing the termination of Parental
Rights, in cases where the Parent's Rights have already been terminated.
Changing the odds. Forced and Illegal Adoptions: a continuation of the Slavery system.
14- Putting Everything Together: An Overview. Never
Giving Up. Looking at the whole picture. Thinking out of the box. Working on
the solutions. You, the Spiritual Warrior, Master of the High Game.
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